A Brief History (of Bridal Under-things)
Believe it or not, bridal garters are one of the longest
surviving wedding traditions!
Dating all the way back to the 15oo’s in France
and England, where wedding guests would wait outside the bridal bed
chamber for the groom to toss the garter
or stockings. The lucky one who caught the bride’s under-things was granted
good luck and was supposed to be married in the next year.
It wasn’t always this simple though, in the 1700’s the
tradition changed into a rather rough charging of the bride when the wedding
guests decided any piece of the bride’s ensemble was good enough! This often
resulted in the bride being trampled and her gown torn to shreds. Let’s just be
thankful this isn’t happening at weddings anymore.
For a while there in the 1900’s brides would wear stockings
with long ribbons on them and at the reception the ribbon would be cut into
tiny pieces and passed out to the guests for good luck. This then changed into
handing out pre-cut ribbons, scarves, gloves and other objects and the
tradition of wedding favours was born.
Pretty strange stuff if you ask me, and this is just the
highlights!
Nowadays the tradition dictates that the groom will remove
the garter from the bride’s leg at the reception and toss it to all the single
men. The man that catches it will place
it on the lucky lady that caught the bouquet and she will be the next to be married,
he higher he puts it, the longer her marriage will last.
Brides and Grooms have been altering this tradition to suit
their personal style for as long as it’s been around and it will continue to
change over the years. One thing that
seems to have lasted though is the use of the garter as “something blue” and
this can be as simple as blue ribbon, or blue lining. Depending on the couple
the ceremony or removing the garter can be wild and outrageous, or understated
and quick.
The main thing to remember is that yes, it’s a silly
tradition but everybody does it and it was never intended to embarrass anyone.
It might seem weird for your new husband to be digging around in your dress
while your parents are present, but 25 years ago, they were doing the same
thing!
Of course it might not have been removed to the music from the Mission
Impossible movies but that’s another story, and it probably still ended up on
someone’s head.
*it should be noted that this is my interpretation using information gathered from a variety of sources.*